Marriage

Also called the sacrament of Matrimony. 

The matrimonial covenant, by which man and a woman establish between themselves a partnership of the whole of life, is by its nature ordered toward the good of the spouses and the procreation and education of offspring; this covenant between baptized persons has been raised by Christ the Lord to the dignity of a sacrament.*

 

*http://www.vatican.va/archive/ENG0015/__P50.HTM

PREPARING FOR YOUR MARRIAGE

At least six months before the desired date of marriage, each couple must call for an appointment to talk with the parish priest. The seriousness of entering a Christian Marriage requires the utmost diligence and willingness to be prepared in the best possible way.  (Date for Marriage is confirmed when all necessary interviews and paperwork is completed.)

Requirements:

 1. MARRIAGE PREPARATION

              

There are two preparation programs available.  A couple who desires to be married at St. Victor’s must choose one of them.

 A.  MARRIAGE PREPARATION CLASSES

 

Four session program to provide vocational preparation for the Sacrament of Marriage.  The course is presented by loving married couples as a “how we live” rather than a “how to live” approach.  Call (408) 251-7055 to arrange.

 

B.  ENGAGED ENCOUNTER  

 

A weekend experience in which an atmosphere is created that enables each couple to concentrate on one another while free from the pressures and interruptions of the world.  A separate fee is required.  Call (408) 867-7753 to arrange.

 

 

   2. FOCCUS INVENTORY

 

Facilitating, Open, Couple, Communication, Understanding and Study…..This program is a self-diagnostic inventory designed to help couples learn more about themselves and their unique relationship.  It is a tool to help couples name and work through issues before marriage.

 

After completing the inventory, a couple report is prepared and a facilitator will work with them to look at patterns in their responses and to discuss issues.  This tool provides individual feedback to strengthen communication.

 

   3. NATURAL FAMILY PLANNING

 

    Couples must also attend a Natural Family Planning course in keeping with Catholic values at St. Victor offered by The Couple to Couple League or at the Diocese of San Jose. Couples arrange for this by mailing in their registration form.

   

   4. NECESSARY DOCUMENTS

 

So that he may finalize the date of your marriage, the following documents must be given to the priest as soon as possible:

 

  1. Recent copies of Baptismal Certificates – not copies of original.

  2. Sworn testimony of bride and groom.

  3. Sworn testimony of closest relative or friend of

 bride and groom.

 

Another appointment with the priest should be made when all of the above has been completed. 

 

For out-of-parish weddings, St. Victor’s requires a full and complete copy of all documentation affirming the validity of the proposed wedding, the preparation of the couple and the delegation of any out-of-parish clergy proposed to officiate.  This package is to be sent to St. Victor’s Church, no later than one month prior to the proposed wedding date.

Weddings are scheduled on Saturdays at 10:00 A.M., 12 Noon and 2:00 P.M. It is parish policy that no more than one out-of parish wedding may be scheduled for any available Saturday. Out-of-parish weddings are those between two non-parishioners of St. Victor’s.

 

Persons under 19 years of age must enter a special counseling program and receive approval from the Bishop before a wedding date can be set.

 

For more information, please contact the parish office.

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